A 𝑝-group𝑃 is called extraspecial iff its centreZ(𝑃) has order 𝑝,
and the quotient 𝑃/𝑍(𝑃) is a nontrivial elementary abelian𝑝-group, #m/def/group
so if |𝑃|=𝑝𝑛
Assume 𝑃 is a 𝑝-group with 𝑍(𝑃)≅ℤ+𝑝 and 𝑃/𝑍(𝑃)≅(ℤ+𝑝)𝑛−1.
Then by the Main theorem of abelianization, [𝑃,𝑃]⊴𝑍(𝑃).
Assume 𝑍(𝑃)⋬[𝑃,𝑃].
Then [𝑃,𝑃]=1, which implies 𝑍(𝑃)=𝑃 whence 𝑃/𝑍(𝑃)=1, a contradiction.
Therefore 𝑍(𝑃)=[𝑃,𝑃].
Now the commutator map 𝑐0:𝐸×𝐸→ℤ+𝑝 is nondegenerate iff for 𝑎∈𝐸,
𝑐0(𝑎,𝐸)=0⟹𝑎=0
but
e𝑐0(𝑎,𝐸)=[𝑠𝑎,𝑠𝐸]=[𝑠𝑎eℤ+𝑝,𝑠𝐸eℤ+𝑝]=[𝜋−1{𝑎},𝑃]=1
implies 𝜋−1{𝑎}⊆𝑍(𝑃), in which case 𝑎=0, as required.